Comments on: Was It Good For You, Too? Was it? WAS IT?

By: Single Mom

Single Mom — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 15:15:37 +0000

or a methed out drunk yoda toking up on some crack

By: Rachel

Rachel — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:30:39 +0000

I say talk to him. And if he doesn’t want to talk about it, then think about if you want to be in the relationship. Someone who needs constant reassurance and isn’t willing to talk about his feelings might not be the best boyfriend material.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:54:21 +0000

Ding, ding, ding!

Talk to him. Why isn’t that the first piece of advice? If you are physically intimate – and been friends for a long time – why can’t you be emotionally intimate and ask what’s going on?

“John, I understand that we all need reassurance sometimes, but is there some magic phrase that will make you actually hear me when I say it’s great? Should I write it down? Put in on my Facebook status? Build a statue to your prowess? Choreograph an interpretive dance? Tell me what I need to do so that you get how into you I am. Anything but having to repeat myself endlessly, because that ain’t working and besides, it’s wearing me down.”

I only suggest those comical suggestions if he’s the kind of guy to laugh at them as opposed to be hurt by them.

By: Heather

Heather — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 15:04:11 +0000

or possibly Yoda on meth.

By: Lara

Lara — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 14:36:09 +0000

Once I got over how annoying that would be, I had two questions: Did someone tell him he wasn’t good in bed? Are you more experienced than he is? Find the source of the insecurity, and you might find the solution.

By: Marinka

Marinka — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:21:53 +0000

Dr. Phil is like a drunk Yoda.